Icebreaker:
What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you?
What is the nicest thing you have ever done for someone?
Overview:
I saw a billboard on a church that read: “Do for one person
what you wish you could do for everyone.” I may not be able to give everyone a
gift or shower everyone with love, but I can do it for one person. The Apostle
Paul instructed Titus that we should be ready for “every good work” and “show
perfect courtesy toward all people.” Division and discord are breaking out all
around us trying to snuff out the fire of the Spirit! To keep the blaze of the
Holy Spirit burning, we need to treat others with the goodness and loving
kindness of God, even if we start small.
Discussion:
Read Titus 3:1-11.
Causes
of division and discord:
Quetta’s testimony:
A few years ago, I suffered a fractured relationship
with another person in our church because of an action they took in which they
felt justified. I felt justified as well and overreacted. Consequently, I lost
joy and peace in my relationship with the Lord. During a revival many weeks
later, I fell on my knees at the altar praying for peace and joy to return and
asking God what to do. When I stood and turned, the person was standing facing
me and I heard a soft, sweet voice in my ear whisper, “This is your problem.” Our
relationship was restored and so was my peace and joy. He will always answer,
but we must be quiet and listen.
What
causes division and discord?
How
can words be used to hurt? Heal?
What
has happened to gentleness and courtesy?
How
can our past damage our future relationships?
How
to keep the fire burning:
Pastor Tommy’s testimony:
After Hurricane Frances in Florida, we had to move out
of our home and move into a tiny apartment since we had removed all the
carpeting in our house. My mom’s home had been destroyed by the hurricane.
While cleaning out her home, I found in a random place a picture of my dad
holding me. In the picture, I am 6 or 7 years old and dressed in cowboy pajamas!
As I drove away from our home, I felt the peace that passes all understanding.
I keep that picture in my office.
How
does the Holy Spirit guide us?
What
is our part in healing broken relationships?
How
can we show love and care for others?
What
good works are you inspired to do?
“That there may be no division in the body, but that the
members may have the same care for one another.” 1 Corinthians 12:25 ESV.
Prayer:
Pray for gentleness, kindness and caring attitude.
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